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You’re Not “Overgiving” — You’re Trying to Secure a Place in People’s Lives

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    Let’s go deeper.

     

    You say you give too much.

     

    Too much time.

    Too much effort.

    Too much energy.

     

    And you think the problem is “overgiving.”

     

    But that’s not the full truth.

     

    The real reason you overgive…

     

    Is because you’re trying to secure your position.

     

    You’re trying to be valuable.

     

    Useful.

    Needed.

    Important.

     

    Because in your mind:

     

    “If I give more, they’ll appreciate me more.”

     

    “If I do more, they’ll stay.”

     

    So you go above and beyond.

     

    Even when it’s not being matched.

     

    Even when it’s not being acknowledged.

     

    Because you’re trying to earn your place.

     

    But here’s the hard truth:

     

    Real connections don’t require you to prove your worth.

     

    They don’t require you to constantly perform.

     

    They don’t require you to overextend yourself just to be kept around.

     

    If someone values you…

     

    They value you.

     

    Not what you can do for them.

     

    Not how much you give.

     

    Just you.

     

    So when you find yourself overgiving…

     

    Pause.

     

    Ask yourself:

     

    “Am I giving from a place of genuine care… or fear of losing this?”

     

    Because that answer matters.

     

    A lot.

     

    And once you stop trying to earn your place…

     

    You start choosing places where you’re already valued.

     

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